Call me old, but back in my dating days, if someone asked you out, they paid. If the date didn't go well, oh well, chalk it up to a lack of chemistry and move on. I realize we're living in a new dating world, but anyone who would ask for their money back after a bad first date is entitled, immature, spoiled, and needs a lesson in humility. Dates (and life) don't always go your way. P.S. Stick with coffee, and if anyone gives you shit for it, you know who you're dealing with. Next!