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Great advice! I'm a dating coach and couldn't have said it better myself. There are so many upsides to meeting IRL, the first being you get an immediate vibe with someone. There's no guesswork, or endless texting and messaging. There's either chemistry or there's not.

To all the people who say it's too hard to meet organically, or they're too afraid of rejection, too bad. If you hate dating apps what are your options? Stay on them out of comfort or laziness even if they crush your soul or fail to deliver? That is dating's definition of insanity.

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Treva Brandon Scharf
Treva Brandon Scharf

Written by Treva Brandon Scharf

ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author of "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love." Visit www.trevabrandonscharf.com.

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