Hi Gary, thanks for your honest and heartfelt response. Not sure you realize it, but you actually answered a lot of your own questions. Keep living your life and enjoying everything in it--your friends, hobbies, interests, job, house. You sound like a very accomplished (and busy) person! You also have the right end goal: meeting someone along the way. If you need some extra support/guidance, we can talk. P.S. There's nothing wrong with you because you're single, but there is something wrong with people who make you feel bad for being single! Shame on them!