I hear you, Andrew, and I hear it from lot of my clients. You're not alone!

I like to think of dating as a combination of action and acceptance: Make the effort, then let it go and detach from the outcome. If you're satisfied with the action you're taking and effort you're making, that's all that counts. Do your best, make peace with the results, and people will see that and respond. That's dating capital, and it's highly attractive. Sending you good thoughts and lots of love your way.