I turned 60 this year and dating just isn't what it used to be. These days it's riddled with nothing but angst, anger, and animosity--a lot of it here on Medium! If I read one more man-hating article I'm going to throw my computer out the window! The more vitriol spewed, the more toxic the dating culture becomes. There's always going to be hurt feelings, rejection, disappointment, and bad behavior in dating. Both men & women will make mistakes. But we all have to take responsibility for our actions, and practice a little humanity while we're at it.