I understand how you feel. Unfortunately a few creeps/pervs/harassers/abusers ruined it for the rest of men for all eternity. I wish it wasn't the case, but women are pissed and rightfully so. However, they need to put their big girl panties on and give the good guys a break. My advice to you is be better. Be respectful and gentlemanly, and you'll stand out. There are still nice girls out there that would be thrilled to be approached by a decent guy, so don't give up. Their loss if they blow you off. Good luck, love is out there for you :-)