I'm married, so I don't worry about it either, but as a dating coach, I worry about it for my clients.

I think what we have here is over-correction on both sides. Instead of finding common ground and solutions, both sides are hating on each other. At some point if anyone wants to find love, they must call a truce.

Mutual destruction and constant punishment isn't the answer. Awareness, understanding, kindness, and better behavior is.