One Day You Will Thank The Ex Who Dumped You

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You will thank your ex for giving you clarity.

You’ll see more clearly and have better insight into who you are and what you want. You’ll identify danger signs and red flags faster, and take quicker action when your needs aren’t getting met.

You will thank your ex for giving you motivation.

You’ll raise your standards, get in better shape, tie up loose ends, heal old wounds, stop repeating patterns, break bad habits, and resolve old issues. If you’re open to it, your ex will give you newfound motivation to fix everything.

You will thank your ex for making you stronger.

Your confidence will improve, so will your worth and value to yourself. You’ll find the power to speak up, the courage to demand better, and the self-respect not to take anyone’s shit. You will find resolve you never knew you had.

You will thank your ex for setting you free.

Instead of wasting time ruminating about your relationship, your energy will be freed up to do more important things, like meeting someone great who truly wants you, appreciates you, and gives you the love you deserve.



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Treva Brandon Scharf

Treva Brandon Scharf

ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author of "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love" coming March 2023. Visit