Sorry to tell you BL, but bitchy women have been around forever. Somehow though, guys found nice women, managed to approach, chat, and get numbers. Most women appreciate a humble and respectful approach. At least I do.

Because we're living in very fraught dating times, here's how I'd do it: Walk up to a woman and say, "I know this isn't very PC, and I hope you don't mind, but I find you very attractive." She'll either appreciate your earnestness and be flattered (or at least be gracious, if she's not interested), or she'll be an ungrateful cunt.

Keep going BL, you're proof that chivalry is not dead!