That's a chance a guy--or anyone--has to take if you're curious, interested, and attracted. If someone doesn't make the first move, no one will ever meet. There'll be no interaction, no human warmth, no connection. Is that a world you want? As legendary basketball coach John Wooden once said: "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." So take the shot people. It might lead to nothing, or it might lead to something great.